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Tuesday, October 12, 2010

My Husband Is Perfect

My husband is perfect.  Having said that, know that I am using sort of a loose definition of perfection.  Mostly I'm talking about the way that I see my husband and the way that I think of him.  It's true that Nate isn't actually a perfect person.  He has faults and sins, just like me. And just like you.  But if I choose to focus on those faults and sins, I'm destined to be unhappy.  And since I aim to be the happiest wife, I choose to focus on Nate's great, amazing qualities.  I frequently remind myself and I also remind Nate, that he is perfect.... to me!  I married him because I decided that his great qualities far outweighed his negative qualities and that I would love him completely, for who he was, including his faults, and not try to change him.  So before I allow myself to dwell on any kind of annoying habit that Nate might have, I instead focus on the fact that Nate loves me and wants me to be happy and he is a good, good person.  And he is good to me and treats me like a Princess.  That is a perfect dream come true.  God brought us together as part of His perfect plan.  We were perfectly made for each other.  To me.... my husband is perfect!